What world does this guy live in?

Men’s groups expand with an urgent message: It’s okay to open up

“If a boy expresses too much emotion or too much need for connection, is too giddy, is too joyful, what we say to that boy is, ‘What are you, a sissy? What are you, a girl? What are you, gay?’” Greene said. “It’s your job to dominate those around you, or you will lose status, and that will increase the number of individuals above you who can dish out dominance to you. And what we find is that in that system, in that structure, men are constantly in competition with each other and constantly driven by this sense of anxiety.”

Yikes. 

Maybe he got traumatized by a DI somewhere along the line, nobody told him to get over it.